People in today's society often don't see eye-to-eye on controversial topics, especially with the prevalence of social media platforms and discussion forums. But if there's one thing that most folks can agree on, it's that everyone's family is unique. Each member has their own journey, filled with changes, challenges, and life-changing circumstances. Sometimes, those events are joyous and worth celebrating, like graduating from college or having a new baby. Other times, those events can cause frustration and grief, like messy divorces.
If you're trying to keep your life together while dealing with a complex child custody case or contentious divorce, chances are you're hurt and confused. You probably have big questions about the future. You're wondering what's going to happen to your marriage, your children, your career, and more. You're over-stressed and in need of a strategy to resolve it. In times like these, relying on the compassion and expertise of a family law attorney in White Stone, SC, can turn what seems like a hopeless situation into a much more manageable experience, given the circumstances.
At Cobb Hammett, LLC, we're acutely aware of the hardships that come with changes to your family dynamic, such as tension and emotional turmoil. Our team of family law attorneys is available to assist you in navigating these challenges and providing guidance on the most effective approach to your case. That way, you can move forward with confidence, and look ahead to a brighter future.
At Cobb Hammett Law Firm, our family law attorneys have decades of combined experience serving the needs of families, from divorce proceedings and alimony issues to family formations and adoptions. While every one of our family law clients has unique needs and circumstances, they all rely on our law firm for personal attention and a responsive family law lawyer in White Stone, SC. If you require zealous representation and a time-tested approach to family law, we're here to help.
As a full-service family law firm in South Carolina, we're proud to serve a wide range of clients: men and women, husbands and wives, business owners and executives, and just about every type of person in between. When they come to us, they're often distraught, confused, and anxious about the steps ahead. We consider those issues and make it a point to provide compassion and advice on the best possible approach to their situation or case. That way, they can rest easy at night knowing we have their back, no matter what hurdles may lie ahead.
Unsure whether you need to speak with a family law attorney? Ask yourself this:
If your answer to any of those questions is in the affirmative, it's time to give our family law firm in South Carolina a call today. Though time is often of the essence in family law matters, our team would be happy to sit with you to review your situation and provide an easy-to-understand roadmap for your legal future.
Divorce is a difficult decision for anyone, whether it's you or your partner who initiates it. It's a painful experience that can leave you feeling shattered and alone in the dark. When you made your wedding vows, you did so with the intention of being together for life. You invested a lot of time and money into your wedding, inviting friends and family from all over South Carolina to share in your joy.
Now, you're faced with the harsh reality that you and your former spouse are no longer together. As your family law attorney in White Stone, SC, we understand how overwhelming this can be. We've assisted many clients through the divorce process and had the knowledge and tools to help them work through it and move on to greener pastures.
When a couple decides to end their marriage in South Carolina, they have the option of a No-Fault dissolution which relieves either of having to bring and prove a fault-based divorce ground. This can help to avoid hostility or ill-feeling that may arise during a fault-based divorce.
In order to qualify for a no-fault divorce, the couple must have been living apart for a year prior to the divorce being granted. This means that they must have separate residences and cannot simply have been living in separate quarters within the same home. If you're thinking about divorce but don't want to pin the demise of the relationship on your spouse, speak with a family law lawyer in White Stone, SC, soon. This option allows you both to accept responsibility and move on.
When initiating the divorce process in South Carolina, the first step is for one spouse to file a complaint for divorce in the county where generally, the other spouse resides. To be eligible for divorce in South Carolina, residency requirements must be met. Generally, at least one spouse must have been a resident of the state for a minimum of one year. If both spouses live in South Carolina, they both must have resided there for at least three months.
There are five grounds for divorce in South Carolina, including a single no-fault ground that applies only if the spouses have been living separately for one year. The other four grounds are fault-based and include the following:
At Cobb Hammett Law Firm, one of the most common family law questions we're asked is, "Why type of divorce is best? Should I get a no-fault divorce?" Those questions aren't always easy to answer and depend on the dynamics of your marriage.
In a fault-based divorce, successfully proving fault can impact support and equitable division of the marital estate in favor of the "innocent" spouse. Proving wrongdoing can provide a sense of vindication during a divorce. In contrast, a no-fault divorce can make it a more unilateral process.
Did you know that the U.S. Census Bureau states that 25% of children younger than 21 live with just one parent while the other parent resides elsewhere in the country? In such circumstances, many families must navigate the complicated and legally complex process of child custody. As seasoned family law attorneys, we have represented clients in all aspects and legal stages of child custody and support.
We focus in providing services for a range of issues, including but not limited to:
Every family has its own distinct characteristics, and as such, child-related agreements must also be customized to fit each unique situation. In South Carolina, our team of skilled family law attorneys takes the time to understand our clients' individual goals and needs and tailor our services accordingly.
When you get married, you go into the partnership believing that you'll be together forever. It makes sense, then, that most divorcing couples don't know very much about alimony in South Carolina (also referred to as spousal support). They ask questions such as:
Fortunately, working with a family law lawyer in White Stone, SC, can answer those questions and make alimony easier to understand and approach.
Many individuals often mistake alimony for child support, but they are, in fact, two distinct forms of financial obligation and not mutually exclusive. Alimony was established to safeguard a supported spouse in the event of a divorce or separation. For example, a spouse who did not work during the course of the marriage would generally have a stronger alimony claim than a spouse who worked throughout the marriage. Likewise, a spouse who worked throughout the marriage but made less than the other spouse would have a stronger alimony claim than a spouse who worked and earned equivalent income to the supporting spouse.
In many cases, a spouse may choose to stay at home to tend to the children and manage the household. Oftentimes, the spouse who remains at home has sacrificed their career or education to care for the family. In such instances, a divorce could leave the financially weaker spouse in a state of financial turmoil. Without that support system, they will have to start over from scratch. These are some factors the Court will consider in evaluating an appropriate alimony case. Throughout your marriage, you have structured your quality of life based on a budget determined by your finances. While all expenses are shared by both partners, what happens if you have been financially dependent on your spouse and need to support yourself?
At Cobb, & Hammett, LLC, we aim to assist you in securing the alimony you need to support both yourself and your children. At the same time, we want to ensure that you are not overpaying your spouse, if you are the one required to pay. You may be required to pay an amount that could leave you in a difficult financial situation. Regardless, it's crucial to have the right legal representation to guide you through the alimony process in South Carolina.
Some people may assume financial responsibilities to a former partner are end with the filing of a divorce decree. However, if the court has mandated alimony payments, then the financial obligations survive. Failure to meet those obligations can lead to serious legal and financial consequences. Family law attorneys at Cobb Hammett, LLC have years of experience representing clients throughout the divorce process, including alimony determinations.
Our legal services cover many aspects of alimony law, such as:
Though our family law attorneys are fearless negotiators and litigators, we always strive to keep your legal proceedings as seamless and straightforward as possible. Our goal is to help reach an agreement on alimony that is reasonable for both you and your spouse. However, compromises aren't always possible. If needed, our lawyers will fight aggressively on your behalf to help ensure your financial rights are protected.
Law is complicate matter. It can cause you a big problem if you ignore it. Let us help you!
Dealing with family law cases can be incredibly trying, particularly when it comes to matters of separation or divorce. As your family law attorney in White Stone, SC, we recognize the challenges you're facing. With that in mind, know that we're committed to offering empathetic legal counsel on your behalf, no matter how contentious or confusing your situation may become. Contact our law offices today for your initial family law consultation.
Southerners know a breakfast spread isn’t complete without a healthy offering of grits. We love our grits creamy, cheesy and — of course — when they’re ...
Southerners know a breakfast spread isn’t complete without a healthy offering of grits. We love our grits creamy, cheesy and — of course — when they’re paired with shrimp. Plain grits are not only a part of any good Southern menu, but they’re also an open canvas onto which many chefs add their own touch.
This same customization applies to home chefs as well. However, before you start adding cheese and spices, you have to know that the grits themselves are great. And who are we to just trust what we see prominantly displaced at the grocery store? We wanted to try a handful of different, easy-to-find grits to see which ones are actually the best. Which grits have the best overall texture and flavor? Are pricier, stone-ground grits really worth it? You can probably guess the answer to this last question, but some of our favorite brands may surprise you.
For our taste test, we cooked each brand of grits as we normally would, with a mixture of butter, cream, water and a little salt. Sure, we could have cooked them in just plain water, but we wanted to make sure we were tasting the grits as — in our opinion — they should be eaten in our homes. We chose six different grits that are all easy to find in stores or online. Some were stone ground and required more cooking time, while others were quick grits, so we whipped those up right before serving.
We asked our tasters to rate each brand of grits on a scale of 1 to 5 for creaminess, consistency of the grits (were they smooth or chunky?), corn flavor and overall impressions. We tallied up the results from our ten judges and the highest possible score a brand could receive was 150. Below are the results of our grits taste test, ranked from least enjoyable to our favorite.
Unicorns and pastel “Millennial Pink” are all the rage when it comes to trending food products. So, when I stumbled upon these so-callled “unicorn” grits, I had to see if they were just another gimmick or actually worth buying on a regular basis. These sorta pink, but actually more lavender after cooking, grits come from Millers All Day, a new restaurant in Charleston. I was very pleased to learn that they grits didn’t get their coloring from food dye, but rather are made from a specific type of Appalachian red corn that Greg Johnsman, owner of Millers All Day, stumbled upon. Johnsman told Garden and Gun that the pink grits have a distinct taste as well. “Blue corn is very floral, Jimmy Red is nutty, but Unicorn is sweet and soft,” Johnsman said. A new mail order service allowed us to get our hands on the grits, which have been used in the restaurant in various dishes like a sweet and savory cookie and as the base of a collards and brisket grit bowl.
Luckily our order came in time for the taste test and we were able to include them in the roundup. The coloring gave them away immediately; however, we weren’t sure how they would taste compared to the other grits. One taster described the grits as having a “strong popcorn flavor,” while another taster commented, “It has a nuttiness to it.” The judges were dazzled by the color, but the grits lacked deep corn flavor. “[The grits] are a little grainy and not flavorful enough,” a taster remarked. “[They’re] VERY PRETTY! Purple is my favorite color, but taste could be better,” said another. “Meh” was pretty much how every taster felt. Maybe it was because they cooled down quickly or needed to be prepared with different proportions of grits to liquid, but they definitely lacked in the creaminess department. At Millers All Day, chef Madison Tessener soaks the grits overnight in water and cooks them in the soaking liquid. She also adds a splash of lemon juice to help them stay nice and pink. We’ll have to try this technique the next time we make them.
Score
Creaminess: 31 Consistency of Grits: 32 Corn Flavor: 28 Total: 91
Quaker Quick 5-Minute Grits
Creamy grits in five minutes? That’s what Quaker promises with these grits. With this fast cooking technique, the resulting grits left us questioning what we had consumed. The texture was unappealing and, to put it simply, “clumpy.” The lack of creaminess also put us in a bad mood. “It’s too thick and not creamy,” one taster remarked. Another wrote: “Too thick. Too sweet. Yuck ☹.” The judges came to the consensus that these weren’t the worst grits they had ever tasted, but they had no desire to try them again. “They’re not bad,” one taster commented. “The coarseness of grain takes away from the corn flavor.” Another taster could tell these grits were of the quick variety. “Seems like microwave, so it’s meh.” Even though we cooked them on the stove, this taster could tell something was off.
31 Consistency of Grits: 32 Corn Flavor: 31 Total: 94
Aunt Jemima Quick Grits
The flavor and texture of these grits were an improvement over Quaker, but they were still just okay. Our tasters thought they were “solid grits,” but had nothing else spectacular to say about them. To put it simply, “it tastes like grits,” said another. Maybe with a little more butter or even some cheese, these grits could pass muster — and would be a great timesaver when stone-ground isn’t an option.
35 Consistency of Grits: 36.5 Corn Flavor: 30 Total: 101.5
Our tasters didn’t have many issues with this batch of grits. The flavor clearly was a winner in our minds and bellies. Tasters felt the flavor was not overly corny and was slightly buttery, which made for a good overall bowl of grits. One of the biggest flaws the tasters found was with the texture. Some of them found the consistency to be “slightly rough,” but they liked it. Another thought the texture better resembled Cream of Wheat and that they were “a touch al dente.” Still another wasn’t bothered: “They’re pretty perfect.”
37 Consistency of Grits: 34 Corn Flavor: 38 Total: 109
Unlike some of our other contenders, Bob’s Red Mill Corn grits are yellow instead of white. Our tasters loved the coloring, noting that they were so yellow they “look[ed] like cheese.” While tasting these grits, our judges found that the consistency was very creamy and the different sizes of grain made for an interesting bite. “Very creamy ❤ Risks being sticky but very good,” one judge said. These grits were thicker than the other ones we tried, but not in an unappealing way. “A bit thick but I like it,” another taster said. One taster commented “Amazing overall. Interestingly yellow. Nearly perfect.”
41 Consistency of Grits: 38.5 Corn Flavor: 36.5 Total: 116
As one of the best-selling grits on Amazon, it’s really no surprise that these grits came out on top. Smoothness, creaminess and great flavor is what you’ll find while eating these grits. “SO CREAMY! Awesome,” one taster said. The flavor was mild — one taster even called it bland, “but not in a bad way.” Another wrote that the grits were, overall, “ultra creamy with a nice texture. A+ for this one.”
41 Consistency of Grits: 41 Corn Flavor: 39 Total: 121
Rachel Taylor is a staff writer at Southern Kitchen. She moved to Atlanta earlier this year after graduating college in Maryland, and has been a digital audience specialist at the Atlanta Journal-Constitution and Politically Georgia, as well as a freelance writer for publications such as USA Today and the Delmarva Daily Times on Maryland’s Eastern Shore. She has lived in France and Italy, and loves to travel.